Two famous men are currently involved in sex scandals involving maids. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Dominique Strauss-Kahn, also not to forget that hindi film actor,
we're talking about dominance, the driving force behind many a fetish.
"The maid is a servant, so there's this whole thing of being in charge of somebody else and being able to tell them what to do," observes sexual commentator David Steinberg, author of Divas of San Francisco. "For white guys, there's often an issue of racial dominance built into the situation, because maids these days are often not white.
"Whether it's the boss and the secretary, the doctor and the nurse, or the homeowner and the maid, you've got a white male who's in a position of authority over a non-white woman, and there's a lot of sexual energy that goes on around that in general," Steinberg says.
"The maid is a servant, so there's this whole thing of being in charge of somebody else and being able to tell them what to do," observes sexual commentator David Steinberg, author of Divas of San Francisco. "For white guys, there's often an issue of racial dominance built into the situation, because maids these days are often not white.
"Whether it's the boss and the secretary, the doctor and the nurse, or the homeowner and the maid, you've got a white male who's in a position of authority over a non-white woman, and there's a lot of sexual energy that goes on around that in general," Steinberg says.
You know her name. She knows yours. But she's not here not to socialize. She is here to be paid, this cleaner of your private places who is neither you nor your spouse but a semi-stranger whom you might not even recognize, much less greet, out of uniform.
She sees the skid marks on your sheets.
She sees the skid marks on your sheets.
"It's also about men wanting to look at women on their knees. Men want to know that women are there to clean up after them. You only have to look at porn to figure that out."
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